Dear Sir / Madam,
We beg your acceptance and perusal of this
Newsletter, embodying a short statement of our humble efforts towards our
mission of changing destinies of homeless/family-less children.
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With 182
children, 22 Resident Sevaks, 48 full-time workers, numerous volunteers and
well-wishers, Parivaar Ashram is a place of vibrant activity.
Centre-wise & Gender-wise distribution
of children
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Parivaar Ashram, Bakhrahat
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School Admission
Distribution for the year 2006-07.
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Vidyanagar Multipurpose School
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Vidyanagar. Balika Vidyamandir
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Raspunja Prankrishna Vidyalaya
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Total Children admitted in outside Schools
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Parivaar In house (to be prepared for Class I for next academic year)
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Parivaar In house (to be prepared for Class II for academic next
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New children (Under Training & Testing and in Fast-learning
Bridge Course)
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Total children in PARIVAAR
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ADMISSION PROCESS OF CHILDREN INTO PARIVAAR
Parivaar Ashram is a
residential and overall life development institution for homeless,
‘family-less’, and other destitute children. Typically Parivaar receives about
5 to 10 cases of such children everyday referred by different field
organizations, relatives or neighbors of the child in case, concerned
individuals, members of local bodies, Panchayats etc. After filtering Prima
Facie information, cases for site visit and detailed investigation are
short-listed. Site investigation team of Parivaar visits the child’s existing
location and collects detailed profile, facts and information of the child,
based on interaction with the child’s referring persons / entity and other
possible sources. This site report is then discussed and deliberated upon, and
the severity of the need of the child to be admitted for a long term into
Parivaar Ashram is validated and decision thereof is made. The important
parameters looked into while admitting into Parivaar Ashram are as follows:
1.
The
child’s age during admission into Parivaar should be between 4 to 10 years.
2.
There
should be no possibility of child’s dropout from this long-term stay at
Parivaar Ashram at least he or she becomes of age and is able to make decision
for himself / herself, grow to his / her potential and find a place as a
socially dutiful, worthy individual.
3.
Parivaar
acts as the custodian of the child and makes decision in his / her best
interest.
4.
The
child will continue to be in and under the care of Parivaar, even after their
legal age of adulthood i.e. 18 years just as in any family parents and the
family continues to support their ward financially and otherwise until the
child (who shall be a youth by then) has found a place for himself / herself as
described above.
5.
Generally,
along with one child all his / her siblings are also admitted into Parivaar as
all of them are destitute/homeless/’family-less’.
Generally children admitted
into Parivaar are from categories like orphans, street and pavement dwelling
children, children with critically / terminally ill mother and no father and
other family support, children from other crises background like abandoned
children and vulnerable children from prostitute infested areas. A large number
of children are from rural areas as well.
Typically a child is admitted into Parivaar within the age
group of 4 years to 10 years. All these children without exception have no
exposure to education whatsoever. The youngest (aged 4,5,6) among these who are
rightly aged to start their academic life are admitted into most initial
classes (Kindergarten/Class 1) since their age is in accordance with the class
they are admitted into. They are able to progress in their studies without any
difficulty as there is a strong battery of teachers at Parivaar Ashram, who
teach these children after their day school. Children who are older ( aged
8,9,10 ) and still do not have any
exposure to education, are first trained in-house at Parivaar by our battery of
teachers and then made to be admitted into a class suitable for their age. For
example, a nine-year-old child would be admitted in Class 4 or at least Class
3. These children may struggle a bit initially once admitted into a higher
class in a formal school. But we have invariably seen that because of rigorous
study hours (4 to 5 hours in addition to the school hours) and focused efforts
of our in-house battery of teachers (one teacher for each eight children on an
average); the performance of each child in every successive examination
improves. For example, we have seen most children who are admitted into higher
class first get a rank of 30s in a 50 children class, which gets improved into
first 20s in the next examination and within a year improves to top 5 or top 10
in their class. The children get admission into school by appearing into
school’s admission test and competing for limited seats with other children,
most of them who comes from educated parentage and background.
Parivaar has always being
following this principle - A child before being admitted into Parivaar may have
been an orphan/homeless/family less/destitute child, but after being admitted
into Parivaar the child is no more so. He has then got a home and a family.
Thus the first thing done is to de-tag and de-label this unhappy epithet of
‘homeless child’. Therefore Parivaar does not push the admission of children
into schools merely on sympathetic background as we are not sure what
behavioral treatment the child will get from the school
authorities/teachers/co-students/parents of co-students if they get admitted
into schools even though underperforming. Dignity has to be earned and our
children do so by getting admission in good schools on the basis of their merit
and re-strengthen it by their continuous good performance in their school. It
may happen that a child may not get admission into School A, failing to clear
its merit test, but gets admission into School B and advances from there,
always having a chance to excel in future with all the support of his newly
found home and family of Parivaar.
Some Meritorious
Performances by Parivaar Children
Amongst the 93 children admitted in schools in the last
year’s academic session (‘05-‘06), children have done remarkable well and are
performing on more than equal terms vis-a- vis other children studying in those
schools who come from families having educated parents and backgrounds. Also a
notable point has been that the performance of each Parivaar child continuously
improves with time and with each successive examination. Some shinning example
of such meritorious performances are:-
Santosh Das stood 4th amongst 300 students in Class 5 in
Vidyanagar Higher Secondary School, the best school in the area. Notable point
is Santosh; before he was admitted into Parivaar in 2004 never had any exposure
to education for the first 10 years in his life and was admitted straight to
class 4 in 2004. His performance is continuously improving and he is now
proving his merit as a brilliant student.
Sanjana Dey stood first in Class 4 in Infant Jesus School
Bakhrahat. Sanjana was admitted into Parivaar in January 2004, and was among
the first 10 children admitted into Parivaar. She too was admitted straight
into school for the first time and topped the list of students most of who are
coming from educated background and parentage.
Other highly impressing academic performance were
accomplished by Roshni Khatun ( standing 2nd in her class in Future Gems
English Medium School ), Riya Shaw ( standing 3rd in her class in Future Gems
English Medium School ), Yasmina Khatun ( standing 3rd in her class in Infant
Jesus School ), Jumrati Sheikh. ( standing 4th in his class in Future Gems
school English school ). All the 93 children admitted in schools last year have
progressed to the next higher class and there is no doubt that performance of
each individual child will tremendously improve with time and they will also
follow in the footsteps of the children mentioned above.
A Typical Day at
Parivaar
The children in Parivaar barring those who are 4 years or
5 years old get up at 5 A.M. There are first physical exercises drills till
5:30 A.M., followed by Prayanam, Dhyana and ‘Sanskar Siksha Upadesh’ session,
which includes imparting teachings on moral and spiritual lines. Kitchen at
Parivaar is a busy place where activities starts as early as 5 A.M. Meals are
cooked in spirit of feeding the divine and partaken by all inmates (adult
Sevaks as well as children) as Prasada. There are 5 meals served in Parivaar.
First amongst them, is the early breakfast comprising of milk and biscuits. At
9:30 P.M. a regular heavy breakfast is served. In addition the children take
tiffin-boxes to their school with prepared dishes just like any other children
would do who come from their families. Lunch is served at 1 P.M and evening
snacks at 5:45 P.M. Teaching by our Parivaar teachers is conducted in different
slots like 7:00 A.M. to.9:30 A.M., 2:30 P.M. to 4:30 P.M. and 6:30 P.M. to 8:30
P.M. Since children go to different schools, scheduling of various groups into
these slots is quite complex and is done according to their respective school
timings. Playtime is 4:30 to 5:45 PM and an accomplished state-level athlete
trains the children in different sports like cricket, football, and volleyball
besides athletics and aerobics. At 6 ‘o’ clock daily evening, Prarthana-Arati
is conducted at the shrine in Prarthana Bhavan. It is most spiritually
nourishing time for everyone. All the Parivaar workers and children unfailingly
attend Prarthana-Aarti which is of 45 min duration. Younger children go to sleep
at 9:30 P.M. and older children go to sleep at 10:30 P.M. after some
self-study.
The most strenuous role at Parivaar is that of
House-Brother and House-Sisters. In the boys arena of Parivaar Ashram, each
Bal-Sadan is supervised by a House-Brother (simply “dada” for children and
others). Their work stretches from anywhere from 15 hours to 18 hours right
from 5 ’o’ clock in the morning to 11 ‘o’ clock at night. Early in the morning
they have to get the children ready for the day, starting with Pranayama and
‘Sanskar Siksha’. They then prepare the children for school, applying oil to
the children, helping them to take bath, combing their hair, polishing their
shoes, preparing the bag of each child by seeing that particular day’s school
time-table and sending them to school. Similar is the work of House-Sisters in
our girls’ arena.
This tremendous effort that they put day-in day-out, week
after week, without any break whatsoever, is something extraordinary and has
been accomplished only because these Sevaks take pride in the glory of Seva.
Serving the children and all others in a reverential, spiritual attitude their
energies get redoubled and restrengthened. Everything they do is for the best
of the child and even scolding and a beating or two is only an expression of
deeply ingrained love.
Health Supervision and Caretaking
The diet at Parivaar is very balanced and nutritious
consisting of milk, fruits, curries, green vegetables and other nutritious
items. We have aqua-guards in each Bal-Sadan. So the water consumed by all the
inmates is Aqua-Guard filtered. This largely takes care of many potential
water-borne ailments. Special emphasis is given to hygiene and cleanliness.
We have doctors visiting every week. Two 24 hour Resident
Nurses living at the Ashram. All the children and Resident Sevaks are covered
under Group Insurance and all the hospitalization expenses of these 200 insured
persons is reimbursed upto Rs 20,000 per person per annum. Many children and
staff have underwent major operations. Another resident worker was operated for
stones. One of our lady resident workers underwent tumor operation and was
hospitalized for 20 days. Two of our children underwent plastic surgeries
because they had suffered major burns in their early life (before being
admitted to Parivaar).
Each child at Parivaar has a separate medical file in
which all periodic inspections by the doctors are documented in a proforma and
maintained in that child’s file. All prescriptions, ailment histories,
allergies are also documented. Thus, a continuous health and medical history of
each child is being continuously developed and recorded. As a result, any new doctor can be consulted
and just by going through Health File of the child he gets the exact snapshot
of the health status and health history of the child.
Parivaar organized Hepatitis-B Vaccination for 550 people
(including Parivaar children, workers, and villager residents of Barkalikapur
and neigbouring areas). Camps were organized on 3 different dates (24th
December, 28th January and 25th February), as 3 dosages
have to be administered for this vaccine. Vaccines were purchased from a
reputed Pathology Lab. Refreshments were provided to all the people. A sum of
Rs 1.5 Lacs was spent in the Vaccination Camps.
Notable efforts of
some of our well-wishers
Our well-wishers who have visited Parivaar, and who have
grasped the spirit of the work being done here, have their dedication and
participation further strengthened after their visit. On return to their
respective places they become inspired campaigners for Parivaar’s work. One of
them, Shri Ramesh Kacholia, came to know about Parivaar in May 2004 and ever
since has been tremendously dedicated to involving more and more people in
Mumbai for supporting Parivaar.
Another among Parivaar’s keenest well-wishers is a
spirited couple based in Austin, Texas – Shri Lalit Kumar and Ms. Sreedevi
Menon. Lalit and Sreedevi have been responsible for getting lots of new friends
for Parivaar from amongst the Indian community in the US. After being in touch
over 2 years over phone and e-mail, they came for the first time to Parivaar
Ashram in Jan 2006 and were overwhelmed by their experience. Returning to Texas
both Lalit and Sreedevi ran the 42 Km Austin Marathon and through this event
raised USD 15,000 for Parivaar’s work.
Shri Deepak Ahuja has been one of the oldest Parivaar
well-wishers. Deepak has been regularly visiting Parivaar from the US four
times in the last two and half years and had spent one and a half months at our
Ashram in October and November 2005. Involved in all tasks, right from cooking
to teaching to setting up aerobics drill as a regular practice at the Ashram,
Deepak’s selfless nature and tremendous Sevabhava won hearts of all inmates of
Parivaar - workers and children alike.
Parivaar has a silent and highly dedicated well-wisher
from Pennsylvania Shri Rahul Ganjiwale. Like in 2004, Rahul again visited
Parivaar in 2005 during his annual trip to India, spent 8 days at our Ashram
and charmed everyone.
Rajeshji of Singapore has been in touch with Parivaar
since there were only 15 children. Ever since then he has been involving many
more persons in Singapore for supporting Parivaar’s mission. Rajeshji along
with his whole family visited Parivaar in January.
Locally, Parivaar is blessed to have sagely guidance of
many people. Amongst them Shri Dilip Roy needs special mention. Dilipda and his
‘Behala Sri Ramakrishna Pathyachakra’ has regularly provided many highly
dedicated full-time workers to Parivaar through their relevant widespread
contacts among people and institutions working with the same Seva ideology.
Thus a highly crucial filtration is done at the time of recruitment of workers
into Parivaar which ensures the smooth orientation of new workers, ensuring the
sanctity of the internal environment at Parivaar, and that only the most
Sevabhavi people enter Parivaar’s ranks.
Parivaar Ashram -
Infrastructure Development
Parivaar has been developing Infrastructure after
purchasing land at Village Barkalikapur, P.O. Bakhrahat, 30 Km from Kolkata
city. Land worth Rs 26 Lacs has been purchased in 2 phases. After that
continuously construction work is in progress and suitable infrastructure is
being developed. Our ever increasing number of well-wishers have been very
generously supporting this ‘labour of love’ we have undertaken by their
hard-earned money. Towards the Infrastructure development of the Parivaar
Ashram generous contributions have been received.
Construction and development
at the Parivaar Ashram site started on 4th February,’05. In the last fifteen
months the following has been completed:
Three Bal Sadans (each 1030 sq. ft. in area ) having a Living Hall, Study
Hall, Caretaker’s room, store,
bathrooms and toilets.
Cost incurred 3.75 Lacs x 3 = Rs. 11.25 Lacs.
Annapurna Bhavan ( 1825 sq. ft. in area ). It is composed of spacious
dinning arena for more than 200 diners, Kitchen arena, and Kitchen &
accessories store.
Cost incurred = Rs. 6.5 Lacs.
Prathana Bhavan [ 1650 sq. ft. in area ]
Cost incurred = 5.7 Lacs.
Sevak Sadan (Double - Storeyed): Single rooms for resident gent workers.
Cost incurred = 8 Lacs.
Arogya Bhavan: [900 sq. ft. in area]. This has a sickbay for housing sick
patients, a doctor’s inspection chamber and medicine section where all medical
files for each children and resident Sevaks are kept.
Cost incurred :
Rs 3.5 Lacs.
Two–Storeyed Balika Sadan: (2000 sq. ft in area ) has been completed and is
currently housing 30 girls. Its costs were Rs 8 Lacs.
The construction for 7,200 sq. ft. New Bal-Sadan Block will be completed by
June end ‘06. Its total costs (civil work, electrification, plumbing, and
carpentry) will be about Rs. 28 Lacs. It will house about 100 children and will
be divided into 4 parts.
The work for Administrative Office Block has started from March 1st
‘06. It will costs Rs 5 Lacs.
Construction for 2000 sq. ft Education Complex has started from 1st
May ’06. It will 8 spacious Class rooms and will cost Rs 8 Lacs.
Construction for another 3000 sq. ft. double-storeyed Bal-Sadan has started
from 1st May and will be complete in 4 months. It will accommodate
45 children and will cost Rs 11 Lacs.
Construction for another 2000 sq. ft double-storeyed Bal-Sadan has started
from 1st May and will be complete in 3 months. It will accommodate
30 children and will cost Rs 7.5 Lacs.
Some Special Events
6th November was a special
day for Parivaar Ashram as Swami Jitatmanandaji of the Ramakrishna Order,
currently Head of Swami Vivekananda’s Ancestral Home and Cultural Center,
Kolkata visited Parivaar. Revered Maharaj inaugurated the Sevak Sadan
(Residential block for resident workers) and Aroyga Bhavan (Medical Center).
Revered Maharaj then inaugurated the newly built shrine in the Prarthana Bhavan
having images of Sri Ramakrishna, Holy Mother Sarada Devi and Swami
Vivakananda. Maharaj assisted by another monk performed the first Aarati at the
new shrine. Maharaj then gave an inspirational discourse to the children,
Parivaar workers, and other well-wishers from outside and many other guests who
had graced the occasion.
On 23rd of December
Janma-Tithi celebration of Holy Mother Sarada Devi was observed at Parivaar.
Detailed Discussions on the teachings of the Holy Mother as to how we can mould
our character and life in accordance with her life and teachings took place.
Christmas Eve was also celebrated and an image of Jesus
Christ was also placed in the Prarthana Bhavana.
On 12th January Swami
Vivekananda Jayanthi celebration was observed. Parivaar Sevaks and many
children presented Swamiji’s teachings from different dimensions. At the end of
the function everyone felt elevated. In the week of Swamiji’s birthday, essay
competition was conducted in many village schools on the theme “Swami
Vivekananda and Modern India”. Prize distribution of the competition was done
6th of January. Shri Pranabesh Chakaraborty, convener of ‘Swami Vivekananda
Bhava Samanvaya Parishad’ and editor of ‘Nirbhik Pathik’, a journal based on
Swamiji’s teachings, was the Chief Speaker on the occasion.
On
14th of February Swami Girishananda and Swami Tatvapragnananda of Ramakrishna
Mission Saradapeeth visited Parivaar and inspired and further strengthened the
Parivaar workers in the mission of Seva they are dedicated to.
On
1st of March Janma-Tithi celebrations of Sri Ramakrishnadeva was observed at
Parivaar. Special Discussions on the life and teachings of Sri Ramakrishna took
place. Books and literature on Sri Ramakrishna, Sri Sarada Devi, and Swami
Vivekananda were distributed all Parivaar workers.
Visit of Director, IIM
Calcutta to Parivaar and his subsequent narration during the Institute’s Annual
Convocation Speech.
The Director IIM Calcutta
Prof. Shekhar Choudhary in his 30 minute speech on Annual Convocation on 1st
April, 2006 spoke for 5 minutes on Parivaar to the audience comprising
students, faculty, researchers, Industry captains, and other illustrious
guests. The Director had visited Parivaar along with Deputy Dean of MIT Sloan
School of Management in March, a couple of weeks before the Convocation. What
impact the visit to Parivaar Ashram had on him can be seen from the following
excerpt of the Parivaar portion from his speech.
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Ladies and
gentlemen,
I am very happy
to inform you that there is a very important social sector initiative taken by
one of our recent graduates. ‘Parivaar’, a social service organization, was
started by Shri Vinayak Lohani, an IIT Kharagpur and IIM Calcutta alumnus of
the 2001-03 batch. Shri Lohani did not seek final placement through the
Institute’s Career Development and Placement office. Inspired by the spiritual
and humanistic ideals of Sri Ramakrishna Paramhansa and Swami Vivekananda, he
decided to devote his life to the upliftment of homeless children. It started
with just 3 children in a small rented building with almost no financial
resources, and today there are currently 162 children who have found a new
Home, Family and Future at Parivaar. Parivaar Ashram at Bakhrahat, about 30 km
from Kolkata in 24 Parganas (South) district, is spread over 2 acres of land.
Currently Parivaar runs two (2) Bal Ashrams. A facility with a capacity of 400
hundred children is now under construction.
The children
admitted into Parivaar Ashram can be broadly classified as homeless and family
less and are from categories like orphans, abandoned children, street and
pavement children, railway platform children, children from red light areas and
other such highly vulnerable children. The children are admitted at a very
young age (generally 3 to 8 years) and have no exposure to any kind of
education. It is a great challenge to train them initially to enable them to
get admission into a class that corresponds to his/her age in a quality formal
education school. To achieve this the child admitted in Parivaar undergoes an
in-house Rapid Learning Course for a period of one year. The admission into
quality formal schools is not easy as the children have to go through rigorous
competitive entrance examinations conducted by various schools. Thus the child
has to compete on his/her merit.
Since the
category of children Parivaar works with needs total rehabilitation, which
includes meeting all living costs like food, clothing, education, recreation,
etc., the average cost per child is very high compared to education and other
day-care initiatives. Parivaar works with the idea of providing support to each
child with a minimum commitment of 12 to 15 years, right from his/her
kindergarten stage till he/she grows up and makes good in life. Parivaar has
been successful in this by attracting funds through financial contributions
from individuals. A point to note is that 300 IIM alumni have enrolled as
regular Parivaar donors and more than 200 IIM Calcutta alumni have donated to
Parivaar.
For one who is so well qualified,
having graduated from two of the most acclaimed institutions in the country
getting jobs in top MNCs would have been a cake walk. However, Vinayak chose a
life of sacrifice for a larger cause. For one so young such sacrifice is even
more poignant. A visit to the Parivaar Ashram where the hitherto uncared for
children are laughing, playing and living happily in gay abandon is a most
humbling experience. The Institute community is extremely proud of the
achievements of our alumnus Shri Vinayak Lohani.
Some other Visitors’ Remarks
Shri Lalit Kumar and Ms.
Sreedevi Menon
(Lalit and Sreedevi are based in Austin, Texas and
work in Dell Corporation. They, along with their mother, stayed for 4 days at
Parivaar in January.)
We have been working with
Parivaar very closely for the past 2 years but had not got a chance to visit
the site till the beginning of this year. One of the most memorable moments of
our life; is how best we can describe it. Etched on our minds is the experience
of being greeted by all the kids in their traditional bangla sarees, then one
hug leading to being surrounded by the kids; all of them hugging, inching to
get close to us, touch us and talk to us breathlessly. The next 4 days were in
a haze, we spent time watching the children's routine, eating with them, going
to their evening classes, chatting with the house brothers & sisters,
getting to know all the workers - cooks, teachers, housebrothers /
house-sisters, their motivations; cooking with them. Playing chess with the
kids, flying kites, skip rope jumping, and simply wallowing in the endless
& unconditional love and affection they showered on us.
Vinayak has done an
excellent job in instilling the best ‘sanskara’ into the kids and it shows. The
best thing was talking with the kids and trying to understand their dreams -
some of them wanted to be doctors, other engineers, some wanted to be like
‘Vinayakda’ etc. They all have dreams now - and that was the best thing we
could ask for.
There are no frills like TV
etc there - and living with them one wonders if there is a need for anything
beyond what they have. They are so full of love; the moment we arrived there,
we were hugged and surrounded from the word go and they wouldn't let us alone
the whole time. Language was not a barrier and looking at them now, one is
amazed at the psychological recovery and progress they have made from just a
few months back
It was quite an experience
to see the kids getting ready for school each day - they need to be washed,
packed, clothed etc - all things that kids need when they go to school. They
all line up at the Parivaar gate every morning and get into the rickshaws - all
dressed up in their school uniforms. They come back home to Parivaar and
immerse themselves in study - around 16 teachers do an excellent job of making
sure all the homework is done, they understand what the concepts are, and that
they continuously excel academically etc.
The kids get up at around 5
am everyday, do a round of Physical training & morning meditation, have
breakfast, get dressed, go to school, come back and have lunch and study. The
entire environment at Parivaar has had some great effect on the kids; many kids
are so much calmer now and much more relaxed than when they came in.
Our last day was very
difficult for us, with the kids running after us and bombarding us with Q's -
why we were going back, why we could not stay and if our flight would go over
their bldg. and if we could wave out to them from the plane !
We came away feeling
humbled, energized & touched and knowing that Parivaar was truly our
Parivaar too. Thanks to Vinayak for giving us an opportunity to get to know
these wonderful human beings & be a part of their lives.
Shri
Rajiv Vij
(Shri Rajiv Vij is the Asia Head of Franklin Templeton Investments and
is based in Singapore. He visited Parivaar in February.)
I had been interacting with
Vinayak through e-mail and finally managed to visit Parivaar in mid-February. I
spent half a day with Vinayak at Parivaar and came away thoroughly impressed.
The selfless manner in which
Vinayak has dedicated his life to providing support to underprivileged children
was inspiring. I was particularly struck by the focus in Parivaar on building
strong personal values and character in young children. I found the time being spent with children
on teaching spiritual values to be rather unique – one I think will ensure
Parivaar is contributing some great human beings to the world as these children
grow up. It also left me wondering about the ignorance of these simple but key
values in today’s urban living – values, which are a heritage of our past but
are being lost in the relentless pursuit of material success.
Not only did the children
seem very happy and comfortably settled in Parivaar, but I was also glad to see
the joy in the eyes of the various staff members who felt proud and so content
with the meaningful work they were doing.
I strongly believe that
Parivaar is surely a paradise on earth and everyone connected with the institution
is truly blessed.
Wish Vinayak, the staff and
the lovely children at Parivaar all the very best!!
Shri Rahul Ganjiwale.
(Shri Rahul
Ganjiwale is an IT professional based in Pennsylvania, USA and spent 8
days at Parivaar in December ’05.)
It was my second visit to
Parivaar for some 8 days in Dec 2005. This time around Parivaar had its own
newly built sober infrastructure called Parivaar Ashram, housing some 150
children at this new Ashram. So much has changed from my previous visit, larger
number of dedicated workers and double the number of children. What was the
same, was the spirit of Parivaar, and my old friend Vinayakda. It was
heartening to be back again to a place where love, courage, sacrifice and
selfless devotion all reside in plenty. Ashram architecture, which has
gradually expanded over a period of one and a half years now, had different Bal
Sadans, Prarthana Bhavan, grand Dining Hall (Annapurna Bhavan), guest rooms,
Sevak Sadan (accommodation for resident Sevaks) etc. Construction was still
going on during the visit; Vinayak mentioned that in near future the Parivaar
Ashram would have capacity to house 500 children. During, my quite stay at
Parivaar, I learned about the every day operational activities, local
difficulties and got to interact with dedicated workers.
Many of these children were
familiar faces from my last visit and they all remembered me. We all played
cricket together and I have never been cheered more for hitting sixes ever in
my life than what I received from the exuberant children. Vinayakda hit shots
all over the place and all the children cheered with joy. Glow of happiness on
the face of these children is reflection of the selfless dedication and pure
love of Vinayak and his team. I also learned that most of these children though
have their traumatic past yet have made great progress in their studies. This
great cause and equally great service makes all our humanity proud and
honoured.
The Driving Spirit of Parivaar
The scale of service conducted at Parivaar at present may
appear small and inconsequential as compared to the magnitude of such service
required in the whole country, but the significance of this work cannot be
gauged quantitatively. It lies in an entirely different sphere - that of
manifestation of the spirit of ‘Seva’. The Seva (service rendered in a spirit
of devotion and a spiritual attitude) carried out at Parivaar seeks to embody a
sublime vision of Man’s Glory and Excellence and relationships with his
fellowmen. This is the vision of the Divine in the heart of man bequeathed by
our spiritual tradition over millennia, reauthenticated and revitalized in our
modern age by Sri Ramakrishna - Swami Vivekananda, and of Seva as the way of
interpersonal relationship.
The worker at Parivaar
derives their inspiration from this source of ‘dynamic spirituality’
(spirituality translating into action and conduct towards others) as different
from mere ‘static piety’. It is a great source of strength and character and
work-efficiency, and deep concern for all human beings. It is also different
from shallow, superficial modern
humanism that treats man only as material being, and endevours to
advance human welfare in terms of merely sensate comforts and pleasures,
ignoring his spiritual and divine dimension.
The essence of Parivaar thus lies in the spiritual
orientation of the workers so that they can become aware of their own spiritual
nature and not only nurture and educate the children and others whom they are
serving, but tremendously inspire them by becoming role-models to them, and by
bringing about a permanent character transformation, awakening in them a sense
of human dignity and worth, thus beginning of unfolding of the divine dimension
within them.